Pink Elephant?

I just came home from a friend's house where they were talking about going "Whale Hunting" and "looking for fat chicks." So I just laugh along, and inside there is a plethora of feelings going on like, "Jeez, I hate being fat because that's really how people think of you" to "Fuck them, they can kiss your fat ass" to "yup, my husband's laughing right along." Now, maybe I'm being over sensitive here (really trying to be one of the guys and at the same time trying not to be a party pooper) and I know that one of the people that was there tonight reads my rantings and I don't want him to get all bend out of shape, but if they're wondering or caring what goes on in a "fat chicks" head when they hear these things, then you now have some insight. There is no "lighter note" to this one, sorry.